Will you please stop seeking out innocent girls? Stop obtaining their phone numbers and email addresses in an indirect manner. Stop calling them everyday so that only you can talk while she listens. Stop trying to change them into the girl you want them to be. Stop giving them generic thoughtless gifts such as flowers, chocolate, and jewelry. Stop treating them like little girls. You’re only going to develop a Father – Daughter relationship which is not so healthy if you’re looking for an intimate relationship. Girls are not the same, especially not like the ones you want them to be. You just make it hard for them to say no. Give them the option to say no. Realize that your aggressiveness to have a relationship only repels. Stop these one sided relationships. I’ll give you one word to think about: mutual. What does it mean to be mutual and how can you apply it to your relationships? If you don’t know what they are thinking then you should not go further until you do.